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Who Do You Work With?

My primary one-on-one coaching clients are amazing women, between 30 and 50, who are succeeding in most areas of their life – but are still struggling with self-love.

I also provide Couples' Coaching, speak regularly at various events across the country, and have recently been supporting men with their sense of motivation, confidence, and self-acceptance.

 
Loving Deeply and Teaching Others to Do the Same!
— P.J.

If you're struggling with loving yourself, and you're ready to transform your current life into the blissful, carefree lifestyle you've always imagined, please sign-up for a completely complimentary, 45-min. one-on-one "Discovering True Love Conversation" with me, personally.


Event Planners

Historically, I have worked with corporations, non-profits, colleges, universities, high schools, youth, families, couples, and individuals – all, of course, in a variety of capacities.  

Interested Event Planners, please click here.



WHY SHOULD I WORK WITH YOU; WHAT AM I GOING TO GET OUT OF IT?

This may be the best possible question you could ask because it says, "I need a change in my life, and I sincerely want to grow; can you really and truly help me, P.J.?!"

Like anyone, I can only help those who are interested and willing to change – or help themselves; however, I am confident I can benefit anyone who is open and receptive to new ideas.  We will know only after our initial conversation; please click here if you really want to Learn to Love Yourself!

Event Planners, connect with me here!

Why should you work with me?

You should work with me ONLY if you trust me and feel safe in my presence – even if we're working remotely

Plus, I believe we can ALL help someone experiencing tough times, and we're usually the most effective with those people we have a connection with and who, . . . consequently, trust us – which is why I work so diligently to ensure everyone can trust me and does feel safe in my presence.

Each person is different, and it's important to recognize and honor these differences, and that is exactly  why I take so much time getting to know each of my clients.

When people feel safe, and understood, especially women, . . . all manner of healing can occur.
— P.J.

What are you going to get from working with me?

Everyone is different, obviously, so until we talk, I cannot offer specifics, as they relate to you and your life; however, from a purely One-on-One Coaching Capacity, you can minimally expect to:

  1. Experience personalized, weekly one-on-one telephone, Skype, or in-person conversations with me – for 3-months to one year,

  2. Identify and reprogram limiting beliefs and controlling thoughts,

  3. Practice a variety of stress-reducing activities – many times designed specifically for you,

  4. Immediately begin to understand past relationships better,

  5. Develop increased confidence,

  6. Recognize and share your inherent beauty and deepest levels of value with others,

  7. Have someone – on your side – who listens and sincerely cares,

  8. Minimize the mental chatter robbing you of sleep and self-esteem,

  9. Recognize the origin of your worries and remove them from daily life,

  10. Nurture yourself,

  11. Learn to love yourself and embrace a sense of self-acceptance,

  12. Improve your relationships with family, friends, and intimate partners,

  13. Use self-reflection for real time, emotional feedback, and

  14. Much more!

This is not a comprehensive list, but it's a really good start!  Each one-on-one client receives direct, personalized attention, which allows me to tailor weekly assignments to every person I'm helping – maximizing individual and personal benefits.  Below is a Blueprint I use to help clients understand the basic process we'll go through together.

This is the basic process I explore with my private, one-on-one clients 

 

CAN YOU REALLY HELP ME LEARN TO LOVE MYSELF?

With everything in me, I want to say, "Yes, absolutely," but it honestly depends on you; are you open and willing to transform?  And do you really want to Learn to Love Yourself?  Has the pain, sadness, depression, and self-doubt become more than you want to live with anymore?

If you sincerely answered, "Yes," to these questions – and you're genuinely willing to embrace your dream life – then you have a partner!

My whole life from childhood through adulthood has been devoted to the exploration and expression of love:  romantic, spiritual, love between family and friends, and a general love of life.

In fact, I'm affectionately known as the Love Guru because I LOVE Love, and I've made it my mission in life "To Love Deeply and Teach Others to Do the Same!"

When you're ready, so am I!

Let's get started today; schedule your one-on-one call with me right now!

 

HOW ARE YOU - A MAN - QUALIFIED TO HELP Me – a WOMaN – RECONNECT WITH my FEMININITY?

I'm always happy when someone asks me this question because the real truth is it matters, very little, what my gender is – because helping women reconnect with their femininity is, often, as simple as helping them feel appreciated, safe, and understood.

You know that feeling when someone ACTUALLY Gets You?!  That feeling when they see, and understand, you for you – exposed, flaws and all – and, yet, they love and accept you any way?!

I'm that person!

For whatever it's worth, I was raised, largely, by a single mom, who really cherished her own femininity, leaving me, as a man, to value, respect, admire, and appreciate the inherent power of women.

Please remember, . . . helping women reconnect with their femininity is just one aspect of Learning to Love Yourselfand it, typically, occurs with my clients as we're working in other areas of their lives!

So if you're really interested in reconnecting with your innate beauty, . . . connect with me, and let's explore our partnership together!

 

WHY DO YOU, PRIMARILY, WORK WITH WOMEN?

Honestly, . . . women understand love more easily than men; so, in essence, women speak my language – and that's refreshing.  

I'm naturally a very loving and compassionate guy – I always have been – so working with women whom are sincerely interested in connecting with themselves emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually is an ideal match.  

Plus, I have so much appreciation for my mom and how she raised me, it's become a real honor to share with other women the wisdom of loving themselves.

 

DO YOU DO MORE THAN JUST ONE-ON-ONE COACHING WITH WOMEN?

Absolutely!  

I've been a Motivational Speaker since I was 7 years old, and I've worked with everyone from elementary school kids to high school adolescents; teachers and business owners; non-profit organizations to Fortune 500 companies; as well as, couples, families, and individuals wanting to return to their passion.

More importantly, I have a series of workshops around the topics of Peace, Love, Persistence, and Healthy Relationships, and I would love to support your event, in any way I can! 

 

How do I book you for a Speaking Gig or Workshop?

Great Question!  Email:  [email protected]; Call:  805.699.6585; or Click Here and simply complete the Request Form, and I, or a member of my team, will connect with you as quickly as possible.

Thank You for Your Interest!